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#39 - Does a "real" tabletop gamer - someone who truly loves this hobby - pay to play? Many wonder if hiring a Professional Game Master for your next one-shot or campaign is selling out or simply wasting money. In this episode, we welcome back David Northeast, a professional GM himself, to explore these questions and shed light on the growing trend of paid game mastering.
Episodes Mentioned:
- 028: From Player to Gamemaster - When do you know enough to start your own game? - With Andy Scheirer - https://claimtogamepodcast.com/episode/028-from-player-to-gamemaster-when-do-you-know-enough-to-start-your-own-game-with-andy-scheirer
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- Dungeon Master’s Guide 5E - Roll20 Virtual Tabletop - https://claimtogamepodcast.com/dmgroll20
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>> Clint Scheirer: Does a real tabletop gamer, someone
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who truly loves this hobby, pay to play?
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Many wonder if hiring a professional game master for your next one
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shot or campaign is just selling out or simply
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wasting money. And ill ll be honest with you all. This was something
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I was adamantly against when I first started
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playing tabletop role playing games. I would have never paid
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a professional GM to do something that I felt I could do
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pretty darn good on my own. But in this
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episode we are welcoming back David North, East, a
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professional GM himself to explore these questions
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and shed light on the growing trend of
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paid game mastering. And if after the episode you're
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still unsure whether to hire a professional GM
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or to do it yourself, go ahead and click on the link
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in the show notes.
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We have a free quiz called Should I
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pay for a pro gm? Just answer a few easy
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questions and you'll have clear direction on which way you
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should go. Welcome to Claim to Game. We help
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tabletop gamers have a great time with friends to
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experience amazing stories. It can be overwhelming to start
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and run great games. Let'make it easy
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for you to play any game that you want to have fun with
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your friends. I'm Clint Scheirer. I've helped thousands
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of students in my career find their way to better
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themselves and better their game. With more than 10
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years experience in leadership, coaching, live
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performance and public speaking, I I know I can help
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you create immersive, low stress games
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youll never forget.
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Its time to make your claim to game.
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What's something you've been dying to tell
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people? You know, what is something you've been dying to tell people that you think is
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so important and for those listeners who want to
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enjoy fantastic authentic
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worlds with deep characters and they may not feel
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confident being vgm or dm that they're playing D20 &
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D, you know, what would you say to them about
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the value of hiring a professional game master?
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How does a professional world building u
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connoisseur I would say like you were you
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savor what you're creating here. How does somebody hiring
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someone like you contribute to just a
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fantastic experience?
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>> David North: I will preface again by saying that
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if you are not ready to gm, that's
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absolutely fine. If you have a group of friends
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and you want to go GM'do it.
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Try it. Play hot seatgm. You know,
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have a seat swapper and people taking over
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that seat all the time.
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I advocate for free games
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as much as I do for paid games. And that sounds weird
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because I'm a professional gm. What do I mean by, that, well,
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if you are an individual in
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a group of friends and you want to play D20 &
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D, go and play D20 & D with your friends
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and try your hand at gme. Just do
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it. Don't think too much about it. Don't worry
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about, you know, oh, I can't do the silly voices or
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what. What if I don't have enough prep time? If you don't have
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enough prep time, grab the book and throw it over your shoulder and go. We're
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gonna improvise this entire thing. What do
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you think about that, boys? you know,
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but obviously, I get there's a level of apprehension
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there. If you are a group of players,
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and this is one that really grinds my Go. If you are a
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group of five or six players,
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and you come online and you
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go, we want this very
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specific campaign run for us in
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this very specific way.
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Will you DM for us for free?
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Well, the answer that you will find
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from most DMs is no.
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Even the people willing to run games for free online
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is going to be no. And I'll tell you why.
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There are already six of you. You already
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have a really good idea as to what you
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want to run. And the question is, why? aren't one of
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you giving it a go? Now, not
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everyone is adept at being a gm.
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Not everyone suits being a gm, just like not
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everyone suits being a player.
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You know, I know GMs that refuse to
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play because they just cannot get in that player
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mindset. If you
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want to go and hire a professional gm,
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ask them questions.
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You are hiring them for a service. Don't
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just jump into the first game you see and you think,
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I like the sound of that. Really go into
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depth. Ask for their
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experience. Ask for proof of
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their experience. Ask for video recordings,
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ask for audio recordings.
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Ask for, you know,
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anything that they can give you to prove to you they are
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worth their buck. Because I know there are
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also people out there that are
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professional GMs that are
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advertising their services for hire, but they are just
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reading from a book. And
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this is the problem that I'm facing as
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a professional gm who actually cares about what I'm
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doing, who cares about the effort that I put
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in. And, you know, I'm in the
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process of writing my own materials.
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You really, really do need to vet
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GMs as much as DMs need to
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vet you. You can offer to run a game
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for free online. It's really not
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that expensive. There are services and products out there
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that will allow you to do it. And, the worst case scenario is
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you do it. Theatre of the mind and make
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it up as you go. There are free dice rolling
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apps and all that kind of stuff on discord.
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Just do it is my advice.
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You know, if you want to hire a gm,
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fantastic, but vet them first.
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Make sure you know you're getting
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the bang for your buck.
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>> Clint Scheirer: Something that I have never had the
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opportunity to do is to play with a professional
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gm. And just talking to you
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right now in this episode and also
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the previous one, it is very
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clear why have you
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would call it a craft like this is not just
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somebody telling, a funny story or doing
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funny voices. It's somebody who is really giving thought
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to breathing life into the world. and if you haven't
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gone back, go ahead and listen to when David and I talked
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about world building back in the previous
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episode. it, it's, it's crucial,
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it's crucial to have somebody who knows what they're doing.
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I think I said before we started I would not try to
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do my own plumbing in my house and
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expect it to one function correctly
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and not have a leak. I would ask a professional
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to come in and do it. So if that's the kind of experience you
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want, you need to pay professional experience if you want the
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potentially leakally leaky problem
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that you might get. or you're just okay with, you know,
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not that top grade tier. Totally,
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fine.
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>> David North: I think I prefer the analogy
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of the restaurant and the home chef.
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>> Clint Scheirer: O give it to me.
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>> David North: So if,
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if you want to run your own game, it
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is like you inviting your friends over for a
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dinner party. You don't have any
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professional experience in the kitchen, but you know how
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to follow a recipe. You can get the
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ingredients in, you can chop them up, you can throw them in a
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frying pan. You know, you can throw it all
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together and bring out a
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reasonable dish. I've done some fantastic home cooks in
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my time. One of them is laying upstairs, but don't tell her I said
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that. but I have, I've known some
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fantastic home cooks in my time
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and, you know, a dinner party and those sorts of
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things is nice,
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but you still have to put in that effort to go and
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cook the meal, prep the meal, make sure you've got all the
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ingredients, make sure that you've got everything that you
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need to present the meal for a dinner party
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versus the restaurant where you phone up,
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you book a table for six, you all go
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along. None of you are worrying
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about the dishes. None of you are worrying about the cooking.
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You're just ordering a nice meal and a
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drink. But that nice meal and a
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drink is coming at an extra cost because there is
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extra hands at, play in order to get
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all those extra jobs done that need to be
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done. And I think that is the key
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difference between a, you know, a group of
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friends playing D20 & D and hiring a
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professional GM to run a D20 & D Game for
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you.
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>> Clint Scheirer: Yeah, I mean, you really answered the question.
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This was one of the first questions I was gonna ask to try to
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dig into this stigma, right? There's a stigma
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that sometimes is around paying somebody to
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be your professional gm. And the question was,
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why would I pay somebody to do it when I could do it myself for free or
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have a friend who is willing to do it? And you're
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saying it is the difference between a home cooked meal,
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which can be good and enjoyable,
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and a professionally made meal, which is just
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a wonderful experience that you may not do every
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single time.
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>> David North: Yeah, exactly.
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>> Clint Scheirer: Now I have another question. A gamer. This is
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a, this comes up quite, quite a bit. A gamer should
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GM for the love of the game, not for
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monetary gain. If they want
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money, they're selling out. Well, okay, what
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is your, what is your rebuttal?
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I'm going to ask you to give a rebuttal to some of these questions. What would
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you say to somebody that said you're selling out?
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>> David North: So, okay, I just turn around to them and say to them,
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do they pay an Xbox Live subscription? Do they
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play, pay a PlayStation Network subscription?
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Do they pay, a Netflix
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subscription? Do they play, pay a Disney
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subscription? Because you can watch the free
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channels on the tv. The
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free channels are there, you know, why
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pay?
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but the other point about that
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is if I love what I do
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and I can't
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commit that time freely,
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why am I going to do that whilst
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holding down, say a quote, unquote, proper
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job? Why am I going to do that,
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hold have another job and
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try and run a really high
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quality game just because I love doing
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it? I'm a F, so I'm a family man, I've
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got children, I've got a partner,
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I've got a life outside of D20 &
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D and outside of what I do. If I was to
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work and to
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have games to the same level of
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quality that I do now, I'd be running one game a
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week because of the hours
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that I put into my games now,
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I only consider my hourly rate as,
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as the actual game that I run
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and I work it out to be about 20 pound per
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hour of the game that is actually run.
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But if I break it down, it actually comes
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down to about 6 or 7
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GBP per hour, which is well
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under minimum wage. But
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that's because I enjoy the worldild building aspect and a lot of
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the world building stuff can be reused. A lot
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of the storytelling tools can be reused and
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recycled later on for other campaigns.
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on top of that, there is no such
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thing as a free D20 & D Game. There is no such
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thing as a free TTPG game.
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Yes, the rules for the game are
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free online. The rules you
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can play with just dice and a piece of paper.
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That is totally true. You can play for
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free. What do I mean by there's no such
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thing as a 3D and D game? Well,
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somebody has to host likely
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people are going to, want snacks. So someone's going to bring
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snacks or you're all going to contribute snacks. So you're
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all paying something there. If you're playing in
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a shop. Normally shops have a fee
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for a table, so you will have to pay a
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fee for the table. If you want to
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use the official materials or unofficial
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materials even quite often you have to
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purchase those in order to use them.
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Then we get into the
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extras that I, As a professional GM,
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use Sirenscape. That is
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about 20 bucks a month.
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I have bought over
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2 pounds worth which works
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out to be good luck. About
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2, 6, about
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$2 worth of
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modules and extra stuff for
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my VTT, which is fantasy
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grounds. I
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invest in other
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projects that I'm working on as well. So I'm working
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on releasing a.
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I mentioned it in the last episode. I'm working on releasing
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my own supplements for D
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and d and for 5e. and I'm paying
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an artist for that. And you know,
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all this it helping fund that.
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But the majority of my money goes
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back into my business, back into
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running games for people. Yes, you can run
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D20 & D for free, but the quality is going to
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be far less than if you've
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got the really cool soundbo board, if you've got really
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cool visuals, if you know, if you're playing
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online, if you've got good quality equipment such
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as microphone and camera,
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it's really, really going to
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make a difference.
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>> Clint Scheirer: So it's not just for
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money. It is because you want the
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quality to be the level that you want it to
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be. You have to be able to be paid for the time that you're
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putting into that. Especially when you have other responsibilities
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that you have to. You have in life.
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>> David North: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. I mean,
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don't get me wrong, I've seen some
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fantastic GMs run games for free
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online, but I have horror stories. But
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that's something for another day, I feel.
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>> Clint Scheirer: Well, dude, you know, props to you. Like, this
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is, it's really giving me a different view
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of this profession and the
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respect and it's really awesome. I know that I am
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definitely of the free sword. I'm making home cooked meals kind of
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games for people and
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I feel like I'm missing out. I gotta get that cuisine, that
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fine, fine dining experience of GMing.
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Or maybe not me GMing, but me being a player in a GM
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game. There's, there's one final question
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and I'm sure it'll lead to some other questions, but professional
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gmg, this is the statement.
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Professional GMG is financially
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gatekeeping the game from those who cant afford
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it. What do you have to say to that? Hey, quick pause
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>> David North: So this is where, the conversation
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for me gets difficult because can
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relate, I can massively relate to
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this issue.
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however, it's not financially
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gatekeeping the game. As I said, the game is
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playable for free. You can go and do it for
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free. Unfortunately, it just means
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there is going to be a lower level of
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quality to the game. And I don't mean that in a
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condescending or patronizing way. What I mean is you're
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not going to have all the bells and whistles to the game. You're not going to have
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the soundboards, you're notnna have,
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you know, very, very specific audios. You can go, you
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know, if you're running a game for free at home, you can go up,
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load up YouTube on a laptop and play
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music, but you're gonna have adverts every 30 minutes, you
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know, and that there's always going to
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be bits and bobs and
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eventually you'll find that you start wanting to
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invest.
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in terms of Saying that professional
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GMing is gatekeeping,
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I feel that it's an unfair,
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it's very, very much an unfair review of
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what professional GMing actually is or what
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it should be. I should say,
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because professional
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GMing is
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trying to take yourself to that next
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level, to that extra fine
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dining. Again, going back to the restaurants,
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it's like saying that because
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people can't eat at a 5M Michelin star, ah,
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restaurant, it's gatekeeping food.
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>> Clint Scheirer: You know, I'm laughing because it is kind of
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a silly argument.
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>> David North: Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's the same
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kind of concept. You know, I
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understand that it's becoming increasingly more
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difficult to find a good DM
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for free online, but that's
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because those three DMs are fed up
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and bored of having to wade
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through piles and piles of
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toxic and bad players in
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order to find the quality of game they want to
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run. And I have to say
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that I had the same issue.
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I used to be of the mind that why would I pay
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for a game? Why, why should I pay for a
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game? And after being
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nearly driven out this hobby, I think on three
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separate occasions due to
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two due to online gms
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and one due to tut to
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online players. And you know,
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I was running a game, I was trying to stream it
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and you know, try and really build something from
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it. And I said, you know, guys, if this makes money, if we,
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you know, if we get known, I will
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compensate you. So I made that very clear to, them. But
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unfortunately I had
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a, I had three rotating seats at that,
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ah, table for the best part of six
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months. And I think most people
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can relate to that experience, especially running
00:19:32
games online for free. And again,
00:19:35
running games for free for your friends by all means,
00:19:38
but running games online for
00:19:40
strangers, you have to be more
00:19:43
careful when you're doing that as a gm,
00:19:45
because you will find yourself in
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all kinds of
00:19:51
unsavory situations, as I have
00:19:54
on many occasion.
00:19:55
>> Clint Scheirer: What other objections have you heard? I'm
00:19:58
sure you've heard it all. Like, I'm sure all of it
00:20:01
has come to your table at least one time or another, at least
00:20:04
in social.
00:20:05
>> David North: Yeah, I mean, I've had some weird ones. I
00:20:08
had one guy turn around and say, I'm not going to pay you because you're
00:20:11
British.
00:20:13
>> Clint Scheirer: That would be a great reason for me to want to pay you. Your accent
00:20:16
is awesome, man.
00:20:18
>> David North: don't. Don't I sound like I'm from Eon, but
00:20:21
really from the back quarters.
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>> Clint Scheirer: That's awesome.
00:20:25
>> David North: Good. What other objections have I
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has? I mean, there's a whole host of reasons. Obviously,
00:20:31
one of them is, I'm sorry, I just can't afford it.
00:20:33
Which is a fair enough objection. There's not much
00:20:36
you can do or say. I would say
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if you're a professional gm, and you
00:20:42
have a conversation with somebody, and it's a really,
00:20:45
really good conversation, you're really, really confident about this
00:20:48
individual, use them as a seat
00:20:51
filler. Use them as somebody to join your
00:20:54
game, to show that people are interested in your games.
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Because the hardest point as a professional
00:21:00
GM is getting first 2P players. The first two
00:21:03
players are always the most difficult. If you can offer one of these
00:21:06
players a seat filler position, a seat filler doesn't even have to
00:21:09
be permanent. And you can explain that to them. you can say
00:21:11
them, come along and play just, just for a little
00:21:14
while, you know, until
00:21:17
I fill up the rest of the table. And if I fill up the rest of
00:21:19
the table, you know, you understand it. You know, we'll put
00:21:22
your character to the side for a moment just to see if I can
00:21:25
get another paid seat field.
00:21:28
you know, and a lot of people are willing to do that
00:21:31
and, you know, be that seat filler.
00:21:34
>> Clint Scheirer: I think what's cool is, you know, offering somebody
00:21:37
a seat to fill the position. it's providing
00:21:40
social proof of your expertise, and
00:21:42
that's kind of worth its weight and money for
00:21:45
people to be able to. To vouch
00:21:48
for your expertise. So I think that's really.
00:21:51
It's a type of reciprocity, I think is the
00:21:54
word. Right. You're giving something because
00:21:56
it's not just to get something back, but it's knowing that. That
00:21:59
goodwill will come back.
00:22:02
>> David North: Can go way.
00:22:03
>> Clint Scheirer: Yeah, kind of a karma.
00:22:04
>> David North: I mean, I've had players that have left
00:22:07
because they've fallen on hard times. and
00:22:10
they've, you know, I've said to them, you know,
00:22:13
rather than leave, let's just
00:22:15
00 your session costs
00:22:19
just for a few weeks. We'll see how things
00:22:22
change in the next couple of months. If things pick up, let me
00:22:25
know and we'll keep you on. And, you know, giving them that couple
00:22:28
of months breathing space. Sometimes it's just enough to
00:22:31
keep those players on that, have fallen on hard times or
00:22:34
you know, perhaps they've lost their job and they've
00:22:37
been a really consistent, really good player and you
00:22:39
want to keep them on. So why wouldn't you keep them
00:22:42
on? Especially if they're vibing with the rest of the group.
00:22:46
I've known players to turn around if
00:22:48
someone has been open and honest enough and
00:22:51
said, you know, I'm really sorry, I'm going to have to drop. I
00:22:54
just can't afford this campaign anymore in front of the group.
00:22:57
Which has happened a few times. Not to me personally, but I know it's
00:23:00
happened. The rest of the group sometimes
00:23:03
will turn around and go, we want to cover their costs.
00:23:05
>> Clint Scheirer: O, that's awesome.
00:23:07
>> David North: I will tell you quick story.
00:23:10
I was just scrolling around
00:23:13
online and looking at the
00:23:16
players, looking for DMs posts and things,
00:23:19
and I came across one and it was
00:23:22
somebody looking for a DM for their group of
00:23:25
six. At the time, it was six players. And
00:23:28
they had explained that
00:23:31
they had not had a good time
00:23:34
with two other DMs. Two previous
00:23:36
DMs had really made it hard for
00:23:39
them. They had, you know, allowed
00:23:42
metagaming at the table, had allowed
00:23:46
conversations that should never have occurred
00:23:48
and these kinds of things. And
00:23:51
I reached out to them again, you know,
00:23:54
hey, can I know exactly what you guys are
00:23:57
looking for? What sort of game are you looking for? What kind of D em are
00:24:00
you looking for? And she, they explained to me about their
00:24:03
problem. You know, I went through my usual garb
00:24:05
of who I am, what I do, and what I bring to the
00:24:08
table. And in the end,
00:24:11
this person felt, because two of the
00:24:14
other players were brand new to the game, absolutely brand
00:24:17
new to D20 & D, this individual decided she'snna pay
00:24:20
for the whole table. I was just like, you know what?
00:24:23
That is such a kind thing to do. That is
00:24:26
such a, you know, I want to give my friends
00:24:29
a really good experience of D20 & D. Let's go with
00:24:32
this. Because she'd watched all my YouTube videos, all my
00:24:35
Twitch videos, my TikTok streams, for like two
00:24:38
weeks. She'd been watching them and doing her
00:24:40
research. And when it came down to
00:24:43
when she said that, I was like, okay, fantastic. And
00:24:46
she'd already expressed interest in another one of my
00:24:49
games, and she said she couldn't do it if
00:24:52
she took up the,
00:24:55
like, full table of people, as it were. And
00:24:58
I turned around to her and said, what you talking about? I said, I'm not going to charge
00:25:01
you for that, for that seat at that table. You know,
00:25:04
you're doing a good deed. So I'm going
00:25:07
to do something for you. I'm going to give you a seat, at
00:25:10
another table completely for free. That's a
00:25:12
weekly campaign rather than a monthly one
00:25:15
alongside what you're paying for.
00:25:18
>> Clint Scheirer: The word that encapsulates
00:25:21
everything that we've been talking about is integrity,
00:25:24
right? Like, you are a
00:25:26
GM who has
00:25:29
integrity, and you are fostering
00:25:32
integrity at your table. that's beautiful.
00:25:35
And I think that encapsulates this
00:25:37
hobbyes. There are so many wonderful people
00:25:40
in this community who just pour
00:25:43
out their support, their
00:25:45
encouragement. you can do this, like, play the
00:25:48
game, go get the book, play free, you know,
00:25:51
see how it is. Play with the professional gm. You'll love
00:25:54
it. And that is awesome. So
00:25:57
I. Dude, that's u. that's something I hope you continue
00:26:00
to foster because we need more good
00:26:02
people, showing how great this hobby is
00:26:05
and how people can really love it. Worlds were meant
00:26:08
to be explored, meant to be created, meant,
00:26:11
meant to come into, come into their own. And
00:26:14
people like you are helping us do it. So I guess
00:26:17
my, my gratitude is thank you for doing
00:26:20
that. That's just so cool.
00:26:22
For those of you guys who did not listen to last week's
00:26:24
episode, you know, David was talking about world
00:26:27
building and how players are so important. And
00:26:30
first he's, you know, David, you started Talking about
00:26:33
how NPCs are a vital part of the world
00:26:35
building and so are players.
00:26:39
And what you suggested about
00:26:42
letting somebody stay on a
00:26:44
couple more sessions, maybe, you know, not charging
00:26:47
just to see where they're at, you are
00:26:50
technically keeping the world intact
00:26:53
because to lose even that player's
00:26:56
imaginary character would be losing a part of the
00:26:59
world that was created. That world is
00:27:01
beingah. It's a little less colorful than
00:27:04
it was before. If that person's not at the table.
00:27:06
>> David North: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean, especially when it's
00:27:09
somebody that you've had at the table for a while.
00:27:12
You know, if it's somebody that's jumped in for a couple of
00:27:15
sessions and then sort of said, you know,
00:27:18
I've fallen, on hard times, you can make
00:27:20
a judgment call. You know, sometimes you get a feeling that
00:27:23
perhaps that isn't really the issue and
00:27:26
there's something they just don't want to talk about, and you sort of
00:27:29
just let them go and you write
00:27:32
their character out and whatever else
00:27:35
you have to do. the other
00:27:38
alternative is, you know, if
00:27:41
you get a really good feeling about somebody, if they've been with you for
00:27:44
a long time then giving them that bit of
00:27:46
leeway sometimes because especially if they've paid
00:27:49
regularly, they haven't missed payments, they're not late or anything like
00:27:52
that, giving them leeway is
00:27:54
sometimes just the right thing to
00:27:57
do because they've more than earn, that
00:28:00
level of reasonable,
00:28:04
accommodation that you should give
00:28:07
them. And also you don't want to lose
00:28:10
those players. The ones that have been with you for
00:28:13
you know, even six months,
00:28:16
you know, even two or three months. If they are
00:28:19
really consistent and really
00:28:21
engaging, you don't want to lose those players.
00:28:24
And even if it'a professional gm, sometimes you have to cut your
00:28:27
losses and go, you know what, let's keep this player.
00:28:30
Because if I lose this player, I'm likely to lose
00:28:33
this player and it's going to chain onto this player. And sometimes
00:28:36
you have to keep it, you know, try and keep the party
00:28:38
together where you possibly can. Obviously
00:28:41
there are times you can't avoid it. People's lives change,
00:28:44
their work schedule changes and all this sort of stuff and you just
00:28:47
have to chug along. but
00:28:50
yeah, you know, from a GM
00:28:52
perspective, you have to look after your
00:28:55
players. You know, I think it
00:28:58
was o. What's his name, the guy
00:29:01
who owns Virgin, the Virgin
00:29:04
companies.
00:29:05
>> Clint Scheirer: Sir Richard Branson.
00:29:06
>> David North: Sir Richard Branson said it best when it came to
00:29:09
his workers. Teach them well enough
00:29:12
that they can leave if they want to, treat them well
00:29:15
enough so they don't want to.
00:29:17
>> Clint Scheirer: You know the term don't split the party, I think
00:29:20
has multiple meetings here. Yeah,
00:29:23
right. For those who play D20 & D, not splitting the party
00:29:26
usually prevents life. Right. The
00:29:28
characters survive to live another day. And what
00:29:31
you're talking about is preventing a group's
00:29:34
life from diminishing.
00:29:36
>> David North: Yeah, Keeping them, keeping them together as
00:29:39
much as humanly possible is always going to be in
00:29:42
the best interest of any professional gm.
00:29:44
>> Clint Scheirer: Well, David, just like last time, I'm going toa have you
00:29:47
create that ten word phrase,
00:29:50
to help people get the core of the
00:29:53
message that you live and breathe when it comes to
00:29:56
professional GMing. What do you want them to leave with? What
00:29:59
do you want our listener to leave with?
00:30:00
>> David North: A home cooked meal is fine
00:30:03
to dine, fine costs.
00:30:06
>> Clint Scheirer: Oh, that is poetry. And that goes right back to your
00:30:09
analogy that you talked about. The difference between running a
00:30:12
game for free and asking a professional GM to do
00:30:15
it.
00:30:16
>> David North: Yes, I think that that, that really
00:30:18
highlights that.
00:30:21
>> Clint Scheirer: Yeah, that was. So don't delete that. You need to
00:30:24
put that on A shirt that should be your. Your
00:30:27
calling card.
00:30:28
>> David North: u. But, honestly, like that, is the English
00:30:30
literature student coming out in me?
00:30:33
Unintentionally.
00:30:36
>> Clint Scheirer: But dude, this is. This is so great. Yeah, I hope, I hope
00:30:38
that people give it a try. my cousin
00:30:41
Andy, and nobody knew that he was my cousin when he did the
00:30:44
episode with me. I can't remember the episode number,
00:30:47
but he and his, master
00:30:50
class that he was taking, he was getting his masters.
00:30:53
They paid for a professional gm.
00:30:55
>> David North: Yip.
00:30:56
>> Clint Scheirer: And it's what got him into the hobby. Right now, without
00:30:59
that experience, I don't know if he would be as
00:31:02
interested about D20 & D or any of it.
00:31:05
So you guys definitely do good work in the world.
00:31:08
Here's my, final question. It's the quintessential
00:31:11
podcast question. Whenever you finish.
00:31:14
Where can people find you, David? Where can
00:31:17
they get connected? Where do you want them to connect with you?
00:31:20
>> David North: So there are loads. so get pens and
00:31:23
papers ready. If you want to find me on TikTok, it
00:31:26
is at the Captain 91. if you want
00:31:29
to find me on Twitch, it is
00:31:31
SS Adventurer. Twitch TV
00:31:35
SSAD Advventurer. If
00:31:38
you want to find me on YouTube, it's
00:31:40
YouTube.comssvententurerprod
00:31:45
Productions. they are my three Wayne
00:31:48
ones Blue Sky Socials. I am the
00:31:50
Captain 91 and I think
00:31:53
on X, I, am SS Adventurer. But don't worry, I'm
00:31:56
not on X all that much.
00:31:58
>> Clint Scheirer: Well, dude, I will make sure that you re. You
00:32:01
are, available, because I'm sure some people are going
00:32:04
to love what you have, love what you're doing. Thank you
00:32:07
for connecting to me, connecting with me.
00:32:10
Thanks again.
00:32:10
>> David North: Thank you very, very much for having me on board and
00:32:13
also if you are looking for any professional games,
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you, can find me on Start Playing
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don't just have to come and find me. There are many,
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free to browse and I hope to see at
00:32:37
least someone come and join us.
00:32:39
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